Looks like you're using new Reddit on an old browser. She had a 100% success rate with the litter tray up until this morning so it was a nasty surprise! All the best and lots of love to you. Vote. If you need further support feel free to dm me. I rescued my 2 year old girl from the streets so there was no shelter to return her to, or I might have. I can't even count the amount of times my mom let her into my room while I was studying just for her to jump on my book and sleep on it. While many cats are very affectionate, social and even dog-like, others are more reserved, independent and solitary. Its just normal cat behaviour, youll get used to it after a while. PS - I’ve always had cats and dogs and I considered myself to primarily be a dog person but I can now safely say I’m a cat person. AITA for telling my fiance I regret adopting a cat? Dec 2, 2018 #1 I just adopted a five year old, really sweet cat a week ago and really regret it. On bad days, he gets too fatigued from the effort of getting out of bed and eating breakfast that breathing becomes a real issue and I have to debate phoning an ambulance. We you actually didn't do the reasearch and you didn't knew what you were gettin into. I do want to stress though, that discipline does not equal cruelty. You obviously have made up your mind so the quicker you start proactively looking for a new home for your pet the better. But don’t prioritize this new pet in a time when you need to prioritize yourself. (I also adhere strictly to the ‘hands are not toys’ rule.). Sorry, this post was deleted by the person who originally posted it. Sometimes we adopt for the wrong reasons and then regret it . After the third bite and the third timeout, she never bit me again. He’s still scared and feeling out his new home and human. Each time she did it I would scruff her, scold her angrily on the way to the bathroom, and put her there in a timeout for an hour or so. The energy is normal. I keep her claws trimmed as well but she never scratches me. It makes sense and I feel bad for being another person who adopts an animal and returns it within a week because I wasn’t ready to handle a living breathing entity in my home. Adopt Me! I think you are right. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. A couple of inches of water in the tub also stopped her pooping there. The site may not work properly if you don't, If you do not update your browser, we suggest you visit, Press J to jump to the feed. New to this forum and posting to ask for honest and hopefully non-judgemental advice. Many people want a more cuddly pet, and they may not be able or ready to appreciate their cat's unique personality. I just want her to go to a loving home and I don’t think that is my home. They will sleep close by you because they feel safe around you or just spend time near you, no matter what. She hated it! The past couple weeks I've even felt better about adopting him. It’s your pets home now too. Also— the Bf doesn’t live with you, but your pet does. Regret adopting adult cat, any advice? I’m not saying to not take into consideration your BFs needs but if it’s mild A) he will grow used to it and B) simple allergy meds should he enough to shut down his symptoms. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. He is clearly uncomfortable and sick or having an allergic reaction, petting may even be causing him pain. I just wasn’t having that. I grew up with cats, usually three at a time. It’s in the house . 1. It did take a while but with treating her with consistency (being firm to show her I’m the pack leader, but giving lots of love too) we grew closer and closer and now, 10 months later, I love her to bits and she adores me too - check her out on my profile. 14.4k. To set your cat up for success, it’s important to have some essential supplies ready before bringing your new kitty home.. One commonly overlooked item is a carrier to safely transport your cat home. WFL. Also, there are many overzealous and judgmental people in this subreddit, and rightfully so because those people love animals to a great extent, but don’t internalize their “you didn’t do enough research” comments. Regret adopting cat This is tough and I feel awful for even thinking it. I am beginning to think that I do not actually want a roommate (or at least not a pet). If owning a pet comes up again one day, then it does. It means giving oneself totally to a baby who was born to another woman and letting them have a chance at a good life. Do you wish you got a kitten instead, or wish you just stuck with one cat? Take kitty to the vet and see call the shelter and ask about allergies kitty might have. The title is pretty self explanatory; I regret adopting our dog. On the third day the penny dropped - she was on heat! Most adoption contracts require that you return the cat back to them. Or maybe I thought a cat would be different I don’t know. Ginger was the sweetest old soul, constant purring on your lap or chest, paws on your face, soothing goodness. Oct 15, 2017. By. I am, however, filled with regret. If it doesn’t, that’s okay too. Thank you for the reply. 3. Don’t Put Off Shopping for Supplies. If kitty is scratching and bitting then he needs to see the vet. I can return the cat to the rescue group I got her from (requirement in the adoption papers) and I think that is best. Also, OP can’t give the cat to anyone except the rescue as she says in the OP (pretty standard in adoption contracts), Press J to jump to the feed. A kitten is likely to require more energy and attention than an older cat, and long-haired cats need more grooming than short-haired felines.